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Shalini Passi reveals her life mantras that redefine grace and self-worth, from embracing inner calm to handling drama.
Shalini Passi’s life lessons are a master class in maintaining composure and self-assurance.
Shalini Passi is someone who immediately stands out in crowd, thanks to her vibrant personality. Whether it’s her bold fashion, intellectual conversations or calm nature, she draws attention wherever she goes. Although she has been a socialite for years, Shalini became an internet sensation after appearing in Netflix’ drama series, Fabulous Lives vs Bollywood Wives. Through the Karan Johar-produced show, she flaunted her style and confidence. Recently, she shared her smart tips for handling tricky situations with grace, while also opening up about how to focus on finding inner peace and prioritising personal happiness.
Speaking with Tweak India, Shalini shared her life mantras to being zen:
- Its okay to pretend: Her go-to method for getting out of tricky situations is pretending she doesn’t know about them. She chooses not to get involved in things that don’t concern her and prefers keeping her distance from drama.
- Sing your way to happiness: Shalini Passi believes that singing or participating in activities like sports helps release negative emotions and thoughts. When she feels upset, she knows that focusing on a dance or music class helps her release stress and move forward.
- Be deaf to criticism: The socialite suggests not letting other people’s opinions affect you is the key to happiness. She understands that when someone criticises her, it’s their perception, not the truth about her. Sometimes just a simple WhatsApp message that you know, ‘I was very hurt with what you said and I would really appreciate it if you wouldn’t do it,’ can be relieving.
- Talk less, do more: Shalini Passi prefers to keep conversations short, sweet, fun and loving. She believes that not everyone needs to have deep discussions all the time and sometimes it’s better to act rather than talk endlessly.
- Know your worth: According to Shalini, “Your own respect is in your own hand.” She advises not making yourself available for others and says that maintaining your value can be a form of sweet revenge in relationships.
Other than Shalini Passi, Fabulous Lives vs Bollywood Wives also features Neelam Kothari, Maheep Kapoor, Bhavana Pandey, Seema Kiran Sajdeh, Riddhima Kapoor Sahni and Kalyani Saha.